Types of behavior of men and features of male character. What should be a guy? What other type of character does men have

Oh those men! And they attract, and repel, and annoy, and inspire unearthly love, and then they frighten with their unpredictability, then they seem understandable and predictable. How to determine the type of a man? Go, figure out in this host of representatives of the stronger sex, which of them is reliable, and who is just fooling you! Here's that bumpkin who mumbles something unintelligibly under his breath when we meet - what does he expect from us? And this nimble and skillful boyfriend with a firework of wit and intellect - what does he need? What are men answers vague. Who, in the future, can become a reliable husband, and with whom are short-term relationships unacceptable, because, in the end, they will only cause unbearable pain? Questions, questions, questions...

In principle, the weaker sex likes different types of men. They say that women, for the most part, choose a man themselves and hunt for him with the help of all sorts of female tricks. Maybe so, but even the most seasoned young ladies in these matters also often fall into a trap prepared by a man. After all, among the representatives of the stronger sex there are many of those from whom both young girls and ladies already experienced in sexual relations are thrilled and lose their heads. These skillful seducers have an amazing ability to paralyze the will of a woman, turning her into their victim and taking advantage of the unfortunate until she gets bored. The most unpleasant thing in such a situation is not even that we are eventually abandoned, but that we ourselves willingly climb into the set trap. And, the strangest thing, we often realize that this is a trap, but we convince ourselves that we are exceptional and this number will not work with us. And in vain. Because the number will pass. Even if we manage to keep such a seducer for a long enough time, sooner or later his nature will prevail. And we will receive our portion of tears in full.

Whether we need these tears or not, everyone decides for themselves. In the meantime, let's look at some types of men and decide which of them pose a potential danger to women.

Types of male seducers

gallant admirer

This type of male character is based on the principle of worship in front of any woman, whether she is a mother, sister, wife, lover or just a neighbor in the stairwell. He perfectly understands the state of young ladies and has the ability to understand and console them. The manners of a gallant admirer are striking in their sophistication, and any lady, even the most sophisticated in these matters, can go crazy with them. However, having lost his head from a gallant admirer, one should remember that he behaves this way with all women. Therefore, it may well happen that the seducer's heart, in fact, already belongs to someone, and his passport already has a marriage stamp. And be careful if he did turn his head - this fact is likely to bring serious suffering in the future. If we are looking only for male participation, warmth or a beautiful life, then it is possible to succumb to temptation without building grandiose plans for the future. These types of male character help overcome depression, but they are practically not suitable for long-term relationships.

Don Juan

This is a macho man, next to whom a woman, not believing her own happiness, is speechless with delight. He is incomparable - tall, excellent figure, courageous face! The vibes of sexuality emanate from the macho, in the ocean of which all the representatives of the stronger sex who approach him drown. Of course, to become the chosen one of this type of man is the dream of any young lady, whose self-esteem increases significantly when connected with him. In addition, he is a great lover, and is able to give his partner unforgettable moments of bliss. And in the case when she wants only intimacy, it is difficult to find a better macho. Then, when a woman is also looking for spiritual contact ... Alas, alas. Because with this type of behavior, men are usually not capable of intimate conversations. They are simply not interested in them, since the life goal of a macho is to impress with their appearance and captivate as many representatives of the weaker sex as possible into bed, and he simply has no time to waste time on some kind of conversation.

Seeker of adventures

These types of men are romantic vagabonds by nature, who are very fond of freedom-loving women. Usually they have a very attractive masculine appearance and quickly conquer the ladies who seek to give the irresistible romance both soul and body. And in vain. Because at the forefront of this type of men is not family at all, but friends with whom he solves global issues.

How to determine the type of a man - a tramp? Quite simply, in his disdain for everyday amenities. He can wear the same sweater for months and is completely oblivious to what is served to him at dinner. Women who intend to take such a man into their hands should beware of investing too much effort in arranging the hearth - romance will get bored very quickly, and he will rush into the distance, to new adventures. As for those ladies who themselves are not averse to forever wandering around the world - well, it is quite possible that a romantic will be a good match for them! If not lost on the road without a trace!

Chrysostom

These types of men tend to master the art of verbal communication. They have a rich vocabulary and great power to convince of anything. Chrysostom can very easily express any of his feelings - love and hate, disappointment and delight. If this talker needs some kind of woman, he will tirelessly tell her that he has finally met his soul mate, and his life has turned into a whole firework of endless joy and happiness. Try to resist such a speaker, because he is always ready to discuss with his girlfriend all her problems and reveal his secrets to her. All this, of course, captivates the young lady incredibly ... But she should always remember that if this talker wants to leave, he will also do it very talentedly and subtly. Chrysostom will name many reasons for parting. At the same time, he will skillfully pretend that he is extremely bitter and hurt, but “the situation has developed so that separation is inevitable, and nothing can be done about it. Life is life". In a word, Chrysostom is unreliable as a spouse, but as an adviser and comforter, he will do just fine.

However, these types of behavior of men may well be suitable for someone in life, but the wife of Chrysostom always needs to be prepared for the fact that her husband, in order to improve his oratory skills, will rush to look for new listeners. And in no case do not take on faith everything that he, in this case, will say in his defense, no matter how plausible it may sound.

It should be noted that all the above-described classifications of male seducers are rather arbitrary. In their pure form, they are quite rare. After all, judging by these types of behavior of men with a woman, almost every one of them can be classified as womanizer. So what now, do not trust anyone at all and do not get married ?! Of course not! But, if the qualities of character we have considered in a male representative prevail, before deciding to associate life with him, you should think carefully. Do we need unpleasant surprises, the likelihood of which in marriage with such a man is quite high, and can we bear them? Perhaps it is better to choose someone more reliable as a spouse? And how to determine who is more reliable and who is not?

It must be admitted that this is not so easy to determine. But still, let's try to find some guidelines, according to which we can make a more or less correct conclusion about the strength of marriage with this particular man. So…

What types of men are the most suitable for marriage

Conqueror

These types of men by nature, the main thing is to achieve the love of a woman. The male conqueror has a striking distinguishing feature - in a conversation he very often uses the pronoun "I" and quite rarely the pronoun "we". The conqueror is overly concerned with demonstrating his physical and intellectual advantages over others. Usually representatives of this type of men are witty, erudite and have good connections in society, which they will not hesitate to tell a woman in the very first hours of meeting her. Actually, a conquering man is a good option for a husband if a woman makes him constantly seek her favor. You can’t relax with him - he will lose interest in the conquered object and go in search of other victories. To prevent this from happening, a woman should continuously improve herself in all respects and often make it clear to her chosen one with half hints that she has a lot of broken hearts on her account. In addition, even if she sincerely and deeply loves the "conqueror", one should try to hide this, pretending that she is almost indifferent to him.

Tradition Keeper

This is the type of a man - a conservative who prefers stability in everything. He talks a lot about what order was observed in his parents' house, what dishes his mother cooked, what methods of education were practiced in the family, and so on. Such a man is seriously interested only in the young ladies who are excellent mistresses. In addition, they must be economical, able to create coziness in the house and ready to give up any, even the most prestigious, work and regular meetings with girlfriends outside the home in the name of this. Otherwise, you can not even dream of a successful marriage with a custodian man. It just seems like he's not prone to conflict. If it comes to violating the principles of this representative of the stronger sex, he can throw a huge scandal and even insist on a divorce.

Companion

These types of men by nature are workaholics, for whom the family is the continuation of professional activity. Work for them is the light in the window, and they talk about it all the time, as about intense, but, at the same time, pleasant daily work. A comrade-in-arms is looking for a wife-assistant, whose achievements at the professional level, at the same time, will not exceed his own. Therefore, if a young lady intends to become his wife, but, at the same time, has such achievements, she will have to keep quiet about them. The wife of a male comrade-in-arms, in order to avoid conflicts in the family, will have to give up her own ambitions and devote herself to the work that her husband is so passionate about. In this case, a happy union with a man of this type, even in the presence of adversity, is guaranteed.

Free Bird

This type of man is trying his best to show his independence and with might and main sprinkles some kind of sharp remarks on those around him. At first glance, he is a tactless brute, but this is only at first glance. Because in reality they just love personal freedom very much and try to root out any attempts to limit it at least in some way. Such types of men are even ready to give up a good career if it threatens this very freedom. A woman who intends to become his life partner will have to control her emotions and constantly make it clear to the “free bird” that she is ready to let him go at any moment in all four directions. Otherwise, he will not endure any attempts to limit his actions and will instantly fly further from the most comfortable nest. However, there is a significant plus in marriage with him - “free birds” almost never tend to the left, because they are well aware of how such relationships can threaten their freedom.

In general, a good and lasting union can be created with any type of men we have studied. In fact, as we have already said, there are no exact answers to what men are like. And which man is more suitable for this or that woman, only she decides. There are many people in the world. And there are countless types of men. We have tried to describe only the most common. Each of these types is good in some ways, and not so good in some ways. And each of them can change in one direction or another. And with which it is better, only the heart will tell. After all, love is merciless, and can flare up suddenly to anyone. And there's nothing you can do about it...

Talk 1

Self confidence

Men like self-confident girls who know their worth, know how to present themselves with dignity. Do not ask too many questions about your appearance: how do I look? Is everything okay with my hair? How will my friends react? So you show the guy. And in no case do not get questions like “Do you love me? Are you sure you love me? Do you like me?" This will make you think - is it really so?

Don't confuse self-confidence with self-confidence. These are different traits, and not all men, like women, like self-confident people who are arrogant about others. With a confident girl, the guy is more determined.

Sociability

Women are more talkative than men. Follow this rule, but don't talk too much either. Some even very beautiful girls have a hard time getting to know a guy because they are too reserved. It is hard for men to communicate with silent girls, they get tired of pulling out every word.

Do not be afraid to talk to a man, be friendly and show that you are open and ready to communicate, especially if he was the first to take the initiative.

originality

Guys like active, extraordinary girls who find a non-standard way out of the situation, have some talents, know how to have fun and surprise with their originality. But originality should not go beyond the bounds of reason and shock others.

Mind

Of course, men love smart women, no matter what anyone says. It is interesting with a smart girl, you can not only talk about life, but also learn a lot of new things. With a smart girl, a guy is never ashamed in the company of friends or in the family circle. But with a silly girl, you will have to worry all the time and think, no matter how she blurted out nonsense. After all, then friends will ridicule, and parents will not approve of the choice of their son.

Try every day to learn something new from the world of cinema, literature, music, follow important events in the world. And then share it with a guy, it will interest you even more, and you will always be able to competently support a conversation on almost any topic. But do not cross the line and act like a "nerd", so you will seem like a bore.

Talent

Every person has a talent. Someone dances, sings, writes poetry, does needlework.

A guy should gradually learn about talents. For example, you went to a party, where you will have a great opportunity to show your dancing skills. Or you were invited to a birthday party, if you know how to make gifts with your own hands - make a small souvenir for the birthday man, handmade is now very much appreciated. If you write poetry, congratulate your loved one on Valentine's Day with a poetic creation. You will surprise again and again.

Taste

Men like girls with exquisite taste in everything (clothes, music, books). He must understand that his girlfriend is the best. If it’s difficult for you, then look through fashion magazines - see how the stars dress, what they eat, drink, what kind of music they prefer. And based on this, try to form your own style so that it does not contradict the principles and harmoniously suits you.

Mystery Girl

Guys love mystery girls to woo. But here you should not drag out too long and be too mysterious, a kind of puzzle girl. On the first date, you should not lay out the ins and outs, let him gradually get to know you.

unobtrusiveness

Men love freedom, they don't like it when they try to constantly control and limit. Do not be too intrusive with phone calls, do not write 100 text messages a day. He will call you if he is really interested in you. But do not show indifference and its uselessness, say that you are glad to hear and were waiting for a call. So the guy will understand that he is pleasant to you, and you want to continue communication without being imposed or forcing.

Initiative

Sometimes take the initiative in your own hands. Think about how to spend the evening. Book tickets for a movie that both of you like, prepare a romantic date, suggest an option for spending time. The key word here is sometimes.

the beauty

Love yourself. Beauty is not only external data, but also gestures, facial expressions. This is gait, movement, communication. Try to be beautiful in everything. If you can't, practice in front of a mirror, it will make the task easier. After all, a woman who loves herself and presents herself beautifully will not be left without attention from the stronger sex.

looseness

Looseness, but only in the good sense of the word.

Ease and emancipation (in moderation) will give ease to communication and will not alienate the guy.

Sense of humor

The ability to appreciate humor and joke is an important character trait that the male sex appreciates. A cheerful character, the ability to laugh, laugh at yourself attracts guys. Too serious is depressing. It is hard for them to flirt with such a girl, find a common language, start a conversation. But there must also be some seriousness. After all, it’s hard to build with a laughter and a “ugly girl”.

Kindness

Kindness is a wonderful quality that absolutely everyone appreciates. Kindness can be found everywhere. First of all, to a man, take care of him, be friendly to relatives and friends, and in general to people around you. Kindness is one of the determining factors for the continuation of a relationship, because who wants to date an embittered and incapable of caring woman.

Softness and caring

Feminine girls are much more liked than rude ones. Give warmth and care, show that you understand a man, trust him, and are ready to support him. This will arrange a man towards you, he will become more frank. Such behavior will cause warm feelings, he will begin to appreciate you, he will want to protect and protect you. And he will understand that you are the perfect girl for.

Literacy

Even uneducated men love literate girls. And if the guy is “literate”, then this will become a selection criterion. Literacy should be manifested everywhere: in conversation, in Internet correspondence, in SMS messages.

Honesty

Some guys are tired of the lies of girls and want to find the one, honest, who can be trusted. Try not to cheat, even in small things. After all, at the initial stage of a relationship, trust is formed. Do not undermine his trust with lies, it is not easy to return close relationships.

Modesty

Arrogance and arrogance cause hostility in the stronger sex. After all, the main thing in a relationship should be a man. Show respect, do not show that you are smarter, even if you really are, do not argue until you are blue in the face, proving you are right. Be a little more humble.

bitchiness

Here's a caveat: a little bitchiness. All of these qualities are important for a relationship. But a soft and flexible girl can quickly get bored. The presence of some bitchiness is necessary so that life with such a girl is not boring and uninteresting. Don't open 100% right away. Let him see the best qualities, but leave a feeling of a little mystery and unpredictability. So the relationship will be “in good shape”, even after many years.

What character traits repel men

Narcissism

It is important to adequately assess yourself, immediately catches the eye and repels. A man feels uncomfortable and insecure with such a girl.

commercialism

For many men, this is a repulsive trait, because everyone wants to understand that they love him, and not the wallet. Do not demand anything from the guy, especially if the relationship has just begun. Show that you are a self-sufficient person and do not need financial assistance. Of course, if a man shows a desire to pay in a cafe or gives a gift, do not refuse (when it does not oblige you to anything).

Male character

Even if you are well versed in cars, you can repair an apartment on your own, disassemble and assemble a computer, stay feminine and ask men for help. It is important for them to help and understand that women cannot cope without them. And in return, they expect care, tenderness and affection. No wonder they say "", be like that, and a man will want to carry you in his arms.

Excessive talkativeness

Sociability and talkativeness are different character traits. Don't confuse them. After a hard day at work, men want to relax, and if they constantly listen to how much you talk non-stop, they will simply stop taking you seriously and let even important information go past their ears. Sometimes such behavior can piss a man off. If you see that your loved one wants to be in silence, it is better to keep silent and postpone conversations for later.

Coarseness

Do not be rude to the guy you like and other people in the presence of a young man. Friendliness, a positive outlook on life, friendliness - what men love.

Look after yourself, look after yourself, visit, carefully select your wardrobe. After all, even if you have an ideal character, you first need to like it outwardly, and then show the main features.

To please a guy, find out what he is fond of, what kind of girls he prefers, what female character traits are in priority. But if you are far from it, don't try to play, it won't last long. Soon your own character will take over, you will get confused and complicate the relationship.

The character traits described above are present in every girl, you just need to reveal them and pay attention to the behavior and attitude towards the guy. Be natural, confident, gentle, feminine and a little mysterious. Then you will definitely be appreciated, and you will win the heart of a man.

February 24, 2014 at 10:25 am May 8, 2014 at 1:14 pm

Macho - A very attractive type of guy who wants to please girls and puts a lot of effort into achieving this. Macho is a special lifestyle, it's fast driving, it's extreme sports, it's risk and danger, it's courage. Machos prefer to hide their emotions, but inside they are soft and gentle, and will do anything for their beloved. But to find a real macho and even more so to fall in love with him is not an easy task and only very unusual girls can do it.

Careerist

Men of this type are characterized by dryness of character. Their main passion in life is a career. Your relationship with your boss may be more important than your relationship with you. They can disappear for days at work. If you want to start a conversation about family or children, this type of man is likely to rudely interrupt you, unless communication with you is necessary for promotion. The advantages of such a man are the mind, the ability to stand up for himself and a thick wallet.

These types of guys are often portrayed in comedies and sitcoms. They dress strangely, prefer a shirt tucked into jeans or trousers, always wear glasses, are shy and do not know how to communicate with beautiful girls. They also know a lot of things and have great prospects in terms of building a scientific career. Of course, in real life, extreme cases of nerd guys are extremely rare, usually nerds are quite nice, able to take care of themselves, even gallant, but still they focus on studying. Communication with them may be of interest to girls of a similar temperament, ordinary beauties begin to get bored very soon, because it seems that these guys do not care at all about attractive appearance.

Metrosexual

It is simply impossible to confuse a guy of this type with someone else. They are immediately recognized by their mannerisms, the ability to draw out words, by the great attention they pay to their appearance. They are always well-groomed, perfumed (sometimes with women's perfume), dressed to the nines. They differ from macho at least in that they often go to the hairdresser, do manicures and do not tolerate negligence in appearance. Many of them work in the fashion world or on television. In general, they are quite smart, interesting, but life with them can be boring, because you will have to listen a lot about what men are in fashion now, and they will definitely start giving you advice about your image. There are few women who will tolerate this.

Some women just melt at the sight of such guys. Inflated biceps, a stomach in cubes, broad shoulders - isn't it the dream of all girls ?! These guys spend many hours in the gym, trying not to lose their shape. It is interesting to appear with them in public, because all the people they meet turn around and look with envy at the girl who is so lucky with a young man. If the guy is also smart, then there really is something to admire. However, with such a boyfriend, you won’t be able to sit all day in front of the TV, eating pizza ordered by phone, and you’ll also have to go to the gym to match his level. In general, the type of an amateur.

merry fellow

A guy of this type takes with his wit and cheerfulness. Among them are many animators leading on television. It is difficult to get bored with them, to quarrel, because they try not to be sad and not show their bad mood. Children love them. The only thing that may be a little lacking with them is romance, because a playful clown and serious words about love seem to be little compatible things. However, each case is individual, some merry fellows alone with a girl can turn into real lyricists who compose poems.

pofigist

Pretty common guy type. They are distinguished by a disregard for everything from household chores to politics. They prefer to spend time reading books or playing computer games. It is difficult to build relationships with them, you need to be able to look into someone else's soul in order to see who is hiding behind the mask of skepticism and nihilism. However, if you manage to do this, a good and faithful friend is provided to you.

Leader always and everywhere

A guy of this type strives to be a leader everywhere and in everything. He has many friends, he wins olympiads and competitions, everyone knows him. He solves the problems of others. Of course, at work, he occupies leadership positions. Relations with such men can be overshadowed by the fact that it is very important for them to always be in the center of events, so if you plan to leave for a week somewhere in a secluded place, it is unlikely that he will go with you, or he will always be with someone then talk on the phone, solving other people's problems. More suitable for independent girls with a similar character.

Sissy

Women rarely like men of this type, because they seem to be dependent on the opinion of their mother, who occupies the main place in their lives. They are guided by her in everything, including the choice of the bride. If a guy of this type drew attention to you, then for sure you somehow remind him of your potential mother-in-law. However, if maternal feelings overflow from you and you feel ready for days and nights to cook soups for him and iron shirts, then this is your type. Do not miss your chance!

Just a guy

Guys of this type deliberately try to seem ordinary in everything. They should have a normal job and a normal family. They don't want to become something great, they don't want to be in the spotlight, they don't pay much attention to their careers. Often prefer technical professions, such as a driver or a mechanic in a factory. This is one of the most reliable and faithful types of guys, very courageous and able to calmly endure all life's troubles.

It often happens that a decent, intelligent and well-mannered girl meets a brutal and ill-mannered guy. Why do girls like bad boys and what attracts girls to bad guys so much?

Imagine: your boyfriend is modest, responsible, so positive, goes in for sports, doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke - in short, just like in the song “so that he doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke, and always gives flowers, calls his mother-in-law mom ...” well, everything like that.

And why, then, does the bully Vasya have more fans than him? And perhaps this girl will marry the quiet and modest Pasha - but at the same time she will look in the direction of Vasya, who will also wink at her a couple of times.

What is happening to us, why such an incomprehensible choice, why does the soul often rush to the bad guy, and the mind to the good? Let's figure it out.

Who is this bad boy?

I want to note right away that we are talking about “bad” boys (the quotes are not just there), and not scoundrels. Therefore, do not confuse these two concepts, we are not talking about notorious hooligans, but about noble bad guys are completely different things.

The bad guy is the one who always knows what he wants. He rarely thinks about what other people think about it. Sometimes, he can go over the heads - the goal is more important for him than some sentimental nonsense.

In some ways he can show cruelty, more often he is physically strong, selfish, but at the same time he is damn charming, and he always uses it - while he himself, as a rule, is not fond of anyone.

In relation to others, he tries to maintain neutrality according to the principle “I like everyone, I don’t single out anyone” or “I don’t care at all - you live how you want, I live how I want.”

In work, he thinks only about his own benefit, do not try to make him an ally - it will not work. He himself will not interfere with you either, well, unless you cross the road for him, but do not expect help from him either - he is always on his own.

But now, if you managed to become his friend - this is a different question. Here you can be sure - he will tear all your offenders, without much hesitation - after all, you have earned his gratitude, and he does not care about the rest.

So why do we usually like these guys?

There are many reasons, let's consider the most basic ones, those that are based on the female instinct inherent in us since the cave period:

1.) Every woman wants to feel safe. A bad guy is able to provide such protection - for a lady of the heart, he is generally ready for a lot, but for other women he will do it simply because it will add to him the love of others - and this is so nice for a bad guy when they talk well about him, but if speak badly - he doesn't care. Do not try to hurt him - it will not work. It is thanks to these qualities that he will literally cripple all your enemies, without even blinking an eye.

2.) Bad boy is usually sexy as hell, while it doesn’t matter how tall he is, he can be short, bald, with broken teeth, or vice versa tall and handsome - in any case, this man has such an attractive power that women rarely pass him by - they simply cannot help but pay attention attention to him.

The secret is that such a man is internally relaxed, he knows about his shortcomings and is not ashamed of them, and he also knows about his virtues - and is proud of them. He perceives himself always and everywhere as he is - and, interestingly, others too, which captivates. He never tries to remake others: those who he does not like simply leave his circle of friends, and this does not bother him much, or rather, does not bother him at all.

3.) If you became the chosen one of a bad boy, you can say, in a sense, lucky. Behind him you will be like behind a stone wall, he will protect you, and if his feelings are sincere, then it is quite possible that you will become his only woman. Bad guys, despite their selfish nature, most often then become very good family men - well, of course, after they work up - bad guys usually don’t get married early, well, unless they really fall in love so much that once and for all. But just do not expect that life with him will be simple!

He will always invent something and rush somewhere, that is, you understand, in order to stay close to the bad guy, you need to match him - if he loves hiking, then start packing your backpack, if he loves sports, get ready to watch football matches with him, loves his wife to cook deliciously - run right now to the store for a cookbook. Otherwise, quarrels are inevitable, although you can subdue a bully with affection)). And what is more important, if his MOM ... or his sister suddenly didn’t like you, he won’t even listen to them! The main thing is that he likes you! Not a bad advantage, right?

4.) A bad boy knows how and loves to make decisions. That is, usually you will not face the question of how to spend the weekend or where to go on vacation. Your bad boy will decide everything for you, and he will put you before the fact. Forgive him this weakness, yes, he can choose the wrong country where you would like to go - but the most important thing is that he took care of everything, you didn’t even have to strain.

Just hint to him on the trip which countries attract you exactly - and next time you will go there. Bad boys love surprises too. But remember one piece of advice - never scandalize or scold his choice. Otherwise, you risk losing it - do not forget, by nature, a bad boy is a proud bird - he may be offended! And this, first of all, will turn out badly for you.

5.) If a bad guy has a crush on you and wants to make you his wife, he usually does it right away, why should he think about what and how will happen later, he wants to see you next to him right now. This is another important touch in the character of a bad boy that attracts women so much. True, they sometimes love to the point of fanaticism, they are very jealous, but they don’t always show it - but it’s better not to play with fire, these jealous people can kill, just like Othello.

Who is a good boy?

A good boy is good at everything, but... for some reason, he is not so attractive to women. Let's try to figure it out on the same points, compare it, so to speak, and try to understand what is wrong with him.
1. A good boy usually tries to avoid conflict. in principle, therefore, if suddenly you have a verbal skirmish on the bus with a not entirely polite passenger - do not expect him to rush to help you with this, he will simply remain silent. He will not support you when you start talking about your unfair boss, even if you tell him that he has begun to pester you lately - he will decide that you are able to deal with this problem yourself or, even worse, you yourself provoked such a situation.

He will argue for a long time, offer you options for solving the problem, etc. Can you imagine a "bad guy" like this? Yes, consider that your boss has already lost two teeth in absentia for such jokes. What does <<плохиш>> will not understand who is right and who is wrong.

2. About sexuality- everything is individual, who likes what. Usually good boys take care of themselves, and go to the hairdresser and do a manicure. Dress representatively, strictly, elegantly. But with all this, they are not so exciting women. Why? Well, the main reason is that they strive too hard to be perfect in everything to the point where it becomes annoying. They usually have everything and always according to plan, even sex - but sometimes you also want to improvise.

In addition, the eternal desire to be correct (no swearing, no smoking, always look good, etc.) makes such a man constantly keep his mark, which deprives him of naturalness, and hence the share of attractiveness.

3 . So, you are the chosen one of a good boy.. It's not bad too. He will be faithful to you, devoted, will go to the theater with you, go to family dinners on Sundays - but that's just not always the case because he really wants to - it's just right, it's right. And sometimes it happens with sex too - often it happens not because your man wants you, but again because it is supposed to.

Well, as for mom ... then immediately be prepared - for starters, you should like her, and only then he. And if suddenly she doesn’t like you, no one says that they will immediately leave you, but the fact that your mother’s opinion of you will be a fundamental component of his opinion of you is a fact. “You need to listen to your mother” is another rule that must be followed.

4. At its core, a good boy is indecisive, and he explains this by the fact that "your opinion is important to him." But this most often results in the fact that all decisions always have to be made by you, and at the same time, he will not only agree with your decision, but will think it over in every possible way and find flaws - well, he just has to take part in the choice, too, well, even through only criticism and without any alternative options on their part.

5. Well, what about marriage?- until a good boy is sure that the ground has been prepared for your life together: an apartment, stable income, approval of your candidacy by relatives (do not forget about this either), he will not marry you. If you are ready to wait, then in principle you will eventually be organized a stable and prosperous life. Only, perhaps, by that time you will have already run away with some kind of “bad” boy - but if it suddenly doesn’t work out there, then you can always return to the good one - if he sincerely loves you, he will wait for you.

Well, here is a rough description. good and "bad" boys.

And so that everything does not seem so gloomy, I will say right away that purebred positive and negative men do not exist in nature - that's why I wish you to meet a man who will combine all the most positive qualities from a “bad” and a good boy, and may he make you the Queen not only of his heart, but of the whole world!