After death, all relatives will be together. Do souls of relatives meet after death - religious beliefs of the world

Meeting with loved ones and relatives.


I am often asked in letters whether we will meet there with our relatives, who have already gone to that world before us?Yes, of course, we will meet there with all our relatives and loved ones! Remember that inThe World of Desires has 2 laws - the law of attraction and repulsion. The first is inherent in the upper layers of this World, and the second - in its lower ones, i.e. Purgatory.

In the case of dating your relatives and loved ones, of course, the law of attraction works. And as a rule, they know there when the time is right for his family to die here and come to meet him. They also somehow know if that time has come or not. That is, sometimes a person will be in a state of clinical death, meet someone there, and that one, who has already died for us, will tell him that this is not his time yet, his hour has not yet come and that he needs to go back.

But let's go back to those two laws. Since the law of attraction is characteristic of the higher strata, and the deceased must still reach them by first passing his time in Purgatory, those close and relatives cannot stay with him long time. They will come to greet him, to tell him something, but they cannot stay with him for a long time. The law of repulsion will begin to work and they will have to part. But not because this law repels everything that does not hit. No, this law only works in the case of negative. phenomena, in this way we have a gradual purification and we are gradually freed from our bad traits and thus are purified.

In the case of relatives, if they were loved and desired to see them,the law of repulsion does not work (it is, on the contrary, attraction). But they will need to separate for a while. If those relatives themselves are still passing time in Purgatory, then they will see each other more often, and if they have already passed Purgatory and are already in the First Heaven, then the newly deceased will have to wait until he himself reaches that layer - everything is there only good things and there they will meet for a long time!

Question from M. Handel's book:

Do we meet our loved ones after death, if they wereother religion or even atheists?

M. Handel's answer:

Yes, of course we meet them and we get to know them because in death there is no power of transformation. A person will pass into those worlds exactly the same as he was here, because he imagines himself in exactly the same forms as he looked here during his lifetime, but herea placewhere we meet, of course dependsfrom a few things.

First, if we lived deep religious life and kept the Laws of God, then the time of our stay in Purgatory will be unusually short, and then the time in the First Heaven will also be short, because such people have little to keep them in the Desire World, and also during their lives they tried to feel not only the pain of others (and therefore will now be freed from Purgatory), but also the joy of other people, i.e. they have already fulfilled the purpose of the World of Desires here during their lifetime, and therefore they will be able to pass so quickly into next world Thoughts. Their desire is to get to the Second Heaven in the World of Thought, where they will comprehend the depths of divine existence with great pleasure.

But if the beloved of such a person was of a different nature and had other interests that could detain him for a long time in the World of Desires, then their meeting may be delayed for quite a long time, until this second beloved completes his time-stay in the World of Desires and passes into the World of Thoughts. where they can finally meet.

If it so happened that we died shortly after such a friend of ours, then our meeting with him in Heaven would not have taken place for perhaps twenty years ( I remind you, we mean a person who led a highly spiritual life and therefore he will not linger in Purgatory, when will his atheist friend, who did not observe the laws of nature during his lifetime, have to linger for quite a long time in this place); butat the same time, one must not forget that in those worlds time does not matter at all and 20 years can pass almost unnoticed.

materialist friend who lived good life with high moral principles, as we often find in the case of such people, would be in the fourth region of the Desire Realm for a certain number of years, according to the length of time of his lived life, and onlythen he will pass to the Second Heaven, although it should be noted that his stay here will not be as complete and as wonderful as that of a person of high religious and spiritual values.

Here we would see him, recognize him when we meet, and be bound for many centuries in the work of our future. environment, and here, in the Second Heaven, he would no longer be a materialist at all. Here, each of us knows and feels himself as a spiritual being and has a memory of this earthly life only as some kind of bad dream. Therefore, no matter what faith a person has and no matter what an atheist he may be during his lifetime, after his death, ascending through the spiritual worlds, he will eventually come to the realization of his own true divine nature in any case.

A little more about this topic. You mentioned the billions of dead and you probably think that we are all mixed up there. No, in generalpeople from the same country end up in the same world, similar to what was on earth, that is, Russians with Russians, Englishmen with Englishmen, etc. This happens again according to the law of attraction. We are drawn to the area we understand the most. Also, according to faith, our Worlds are generally divided, but if you wish, you can get into another world - the world of Muslims, for example. To see someone there, but after a while you will definitely want to return to the world of your religion.

But there is one more unexpected, maybe news for you! At a certain time we will be able to see there,again, with our desire, all our previous livesand the memory of all those incidents and experiences will open to us. And therefore, in addition to people close to us in this life, we will also meet many of our loved ones from past lives! Many of them are already waiting for us there!

After a certain stay in higher worlds and after we learn to study our past lives, if we wish, we canfind out how many times we loved and who we loved. And, if our loved ones from past lives at that moment are in the same World with us (i.e. the World of Desires or the World of Thoughts - which is most likely), then we will be able to meet with all of them and this will not embarrass us at all. Somehow we will be able to love them all at once ... And then we must remember that love in the higher worlds has no physical attraction. You will leave that feeling far behind in Purgatory. it is the lowest feeling of love. But you will take everything higher with you and it will allow you to remember your loved ones from different lives.

Question from M. Handel's book:

Will we recognize our loved ones who will pass through the gates of death? ( I think it means when both of these people die and will they be able to recognize each other in that world? )

M. Handel's answer:

Yes, of course we will recognize our loved ones there. When a person leaves his dense body forever, outwardly he remains exactly the same as he was at the time of death. The only difference is that he no longer has a physical body, but he sees himself in the Desire World the same as in this life, because in his mind there are pictures not only of his whole life, but also pictures of what he looked like here. And as soon as he passes into the Desire World, these pictures of his consciousness will immediately take on the appropriate form, so that anyone who knew him in earthly life will also recognize him there.

Moreover, it would be nice to add that in death there is no power of transformation that the person remains mentally and morally exactly the same as before death. We often hear in our lives how people who loved someone speak of a person who has left them, almost like an angel, even if he was actually a real devil during his lifetime. But they usually think it is disrespectful to the memory of the departed to address him in the same way as he deserved it during his lifetime.

However, the fact remains and the one who was a good man- will be good even after his death, and the one who had a terrible character will pass into another world without changing at all.

I also have my answer to Vladimir, but unfortunately without the original of his questions, which were very interesting, but I think that in the course of the description you will be able to determine them yourself.

So, some more clarification about meetings in heaven :

I can’t answer these questions of yours exactly, but exactly how it happensmeeting with family and loved ones. But logically, for this they need, firstly, their own wish to meet and see you. Therefore, if some relatives left a person’s life when he was a baby, then, probably, theythey will be very interested in seeing him, if only they loved that little one and remembered him. Generally, here it all depends on the desire of the souls themselves, firstly, and, secondly, they still need to get permission from the "superior" above us there.

As for orphans, do you mean their parents? After all, during their lives they will still make friends and acquaintances, and they will also come to meet them with pleasure. But, if you mean mother and father, here again everything will depend on the wishes of those parents. There are 2 laws in the Desire World, if you remember - law of attraction and repulsion. The latter operates in the lower layers of this world, and the former - in its upper ones. And, of course, to see a loved one - the law of attraction will operate here and he will do everything for his loved ones by himself, attract them to each other.

About those who are going through Purgatory at the moment. Remember in the issue how much pain is in Purgatory, we sorted out what is there there are rest periods between working off various deeds - it is during this period that the soul can see her loved ones or meet a newcomer, if necessary. If they are very busy practicing at that time, then I think they will be able to see a little later, when they finish and pass a certain lesson, although I'm not entirely sure about this. It seems to me that they can still see other people during detention, probably, it will depend on what kind of detention.

And relatives can also meet maniacs if they loved him. Mother, for example, - you can't change a mother's heart. Or his criminal friends.

But about those who died prematurely and suddenly, they can’t always meet and they don’t even always get help to explain what happened to them. Most recently, a mother wrote a letter to me, who lost her son at the age of 22 (he was a drug addict), and she writes that after death, her son often came to her dreams, called her, didn't know where he was and everyone asked where is he? You see, it means that no one there explained what happened to him, because he did not even understand that he had already died! By the way, about dreams in which we see the dead: they always show the state of that person in the higher worlds at the time of sleep, i.e. they definitely need to be trusted!

As for the panorama, I can definitely assure you that no one but the person viewing it can see it! Only he and no one else is able to view the panorama of his life. So no one there can peep at the deeds of other people. Somehow the panorama becomes visible only to the person to whom it belongs.

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In the previous article on the soul, we considered the more technical side of creation, development and existence in a physical medium. In this article, I want to pay attention to other aspects of the life of the soul - the existence and development outside the physical body. How do the souls of people live after death beyond our reality, what is their meaning and aspirations.

To be honest, I have been going around and around writing this article for a long time. I shoveled a lot of literature and Internet resources studying this topic. After all, the topic is not easy. The task is to put unprovable metaphysical concepts into simple three-dimensional words, and also to convey it to people who, perhaps, are faced with this kind of esotericism for the first time.

In this article, as in many others, along with my conclusions, I will operate with the achievements of trustworthy researchers, writers, channelers. The theme of the afterlife of the soul is a block of knowledge, and what is open at the moment is a meager percentage of everything that remains to be discovered.

Studying this direction and reading these articles, one must get rid of blinkers and restrictions like "it can't be, we weren't taught that way, it doesn't happen like that." If you are looking for truth, look for it everywhere, and not only in what is recognized, officially and permitted.

One person asked me: "Where are the references to the Bible in your works?" You know, if we had access to that real Bible given to us by the Prophets, and not edited millions of times by people, we probably wouldn't have to write anything. read the most general ledger life - the Bible, and everything fell into place. Of course, the evolution of the last two thousand years would have been different. Better, worse, definitely faster.

After all, it is not just that now the Higher ones give knowledge through ordinary people, bypassing representatives of the ossified official science and religion. And to us, by this very ordinary people, it is necessary to accept them, assimilate them, find the missing components and pass them on.

So what is this omniscient substance - our soul?

From point of view specifications this is described in detail in the article "". In short, the soul is a matrix cellular structure, constantly developing and striving to enter the Volume of God.

The earthly incarnation for the soul is an opportunity to increase its vibrational range. While on Earth, the embodied soul works to receive, process and transfer energies to the Hierarchy.

At the same time, it develops and, thanks to life situations in the physical body, goes through lessons to develop their own power. All functions are surprisingly clearly interconnected and coordinated. One follows from the other. The essence of the soul is the desire to develop and merge with God.

Here I will not be original. Before delving into the study of this topic, like many others, I always thought that the souls of people after death simply fly somewhere in the Universe. Some are next to their relatives, some are not nearby, but all, being invisible, just fly somewhere.

A more in-depth study of this topic, of course, dotted the "i". Nothing in the Universe is uncontrolled. Everything is subject to a clear order and hierarchical principle of development.

The place where disembodied souls reside between lives is described in great detail and well by Michael Newton (a regressionist hypnologist who studied life between lives) in his book Journey of the Soul.

The place where the souls are located is an infinite energy multi-level space in which the souls are distributed according to the level of development. If we conditionally take one hundred steps of the development of the soul (according to the channeling information of Seklitova L.A.), then it will look like one hundred levels, on which non-embodied souls are located.

The degree of development of the soul can be determined by the color composite that it radiates. So, these levels also differ from each other in color, as they are an accumulation of souls corresponding to a given level of vibrations.

Within each of these levels there are sublevels and various accumulations of souls united according to certain parameters. If visually, then the similarity parameters are the color scale. And the color scheme is the types of energy collected by souls in the process of development.

That is, first of all, within the same level, souls are united according to the level of development (the main color set) and exist in large and small groups, uniting according to energy similarity - similar lessons have been worked out, one type of activity, relatives or friends in incarnations, and so on.

When such souls incarnate in physical reality, they may have similar interests, be friends or spouses. Such souls, having such a composite, as a rule, long time develop together. Who among us in life has not experienced such a feeling when you meet a person, look at him and feel that you have known him for thousands of years? This is a vivid example of the meeting of the souls of one group.

Such souls have been meeting in the physical body for centuries to accomplish some tasks, while after death on Earth (or on another planet), they are in the same group, at the same level of development.

And sometimes the situation is the opposite, when the person seems to be good, and there are no complaints against him, but as a result of communicating with him, you get the impression that you and him are from different planets. Very often this happens even in the circle of the same family. Communication just doesn't work. These are the souls of different groups, even, most likely, of different stages of development. Just within the framework of life programs for certain purposes, they were forced to intersect in physical reality.

In the subtle plane, souls from lower levels to higher ones cannot just physically get to visit. Only by developing and increasing your range of vibrations, you can move from level to level. This is a gradual process. Rougher energies become thinner, change their composite and thus move from level to level corresponding to the soul.

From higher levels to lower souls can get freely. They only do it when necessary, for example, to convey the necessary information or for other work.

What do souls look like without a physical body?

To begin with, let's immediately define this point: everything that happens outside of our physical three-dimensional perception is difficult to describe with words and concepts designed specifically for three-dimensional reality. For the full perception of the fourth, fifth, sixth dimensions, and even more so those that are higher (there are 72 of them in total), there are ways to transmit information at the level of mental (telepathy) and light (higher levels of telepathy).

But these are the wilds of high matters, which can be comprehended while in the physical body, only by constant work on oneself. These are special meditative techniques for changing consciousness from three-dimensional to multidimensional. Therefore, everything that I describe here is much richer in content, but not everything can be described in human language.

The souls of people after death look like luminous energy balls. The youngest - white color. Each stage of development adds an additional color to their color, which indicates the accumulated types of energies.

The color of souls is a composite, consisting of many shades and indicating the level of development. The rainbow that we used to see in the sky is visible to the eye a palette of colors that correspond to different types of energy. It is from such colors and millions of their shades that the composite of souls consists.

Anastasia Novykh's book "AllatRa" describes paints used by ancient civilizations to paint frescoes. Here's an excerpt:

"... Moreover, for painting such frescoes, colors were used that are inherent in the Soul in a transitional state: blue and green (this paint was obtained from copper ore), dark and bright red (from mercury oxide and hematite), yellow (from iron oxides), gray (from galena), purple (from manganese) and naturally white."

But there is very important point, understanding which, you can draw an analogy with physical reality for a better understanding of it.

All souls go through a colossal path in the process of development. They can be embodied on Earth, they can be embodied on other planets in various creatures that we have never seen, they can develop in a subtle state without incarnating. And this multi-thousand-year experience of development, of course, is the baggage of the soul, which has a direct influence on its current existence.

All personalities in which the soul resided leave an informational imprint on the subtle structure itself, and, consequently, on subsequent incarnations.

And along with the classic spherical appearance of souls, at will they can take on absolutely any shape. For example, meeting in the subtle world with the soul of a person with whom they had relationships in some of the incarnations, the souls can acquire the outlines in which they were at that time.

Michael Newton, in his book Journey of the Soul, describes one soul who was in the form of a cowboy almost constantly. Getting to the bottom of the reasons for this choice of appearance, we found out (in the process of regressive hypnosis) that this was the most comfortable and pleasant incarnation of this soul. It is this soul that feels best like a cowboy on the prairies.

Meet me in heaven

I was constantly worried about the question: is it true that the souls of people after death can meet with those whom they loved during life? I think this is of interest to many, especially those whose loved ones have already left. I will try to describe in detail everything that I managed to find out at the moment.

We already know that souls exist at their respective levels, united in large and small groups according to different characteristics. When souls incarnate, they come with certain life tasks. And on Earth in physical life there are only those for whom this was originally planned during this option development of events (certain scenarios for the development of events are included in the choice that a person makes at the point of decision, at the so-called fork).

People meet on Earth to work out the mutually beneficial tasks that have been planned for them. Of course, these can be souls from different groups of the same level and generally from different levels. Since everyone exists in a certain place according to the level of development, it is far from necessary that those who were close here will be together there.

But everything is not so hopeless. In the subtle world, the power of thought has somewhat different manifestations - more visible than in the physical world. Any soul can mentally call any other soul to itself and communicate with it as much as it likes. At the same time, taking those images in which they were most comfortable on Earth. They can even show their love by wrapping each other in a cloud of energy of a certain quality.

But there is another point. Often our close relationships are not based on spiritual attraction, but on some kind of physical attachment. With the death of the physical body, such bindings are destroyed, and souls in the subtle world do not feel such a need to communicate with this person, as they do here. That is, everything is possible, but is it necessary? Only the deep desires of the soul matter here.

It often happens that souls that exist in the same group decide to incarnate together. And they have had this connection for centuries. In one life they are husband and wife, in another they are mother and son, in the third they are brother and sister or something. In such cases, they take over programs that allow them to help each other develop on Earth. And there they are together, and here they are together.

Of course, the kinship of such souls is visible in many manifestations. It happens that a non-incarnate soul decides to incarnate when it sees that a soul close to it has drastically deviated from the course of its original program. And then, for example, a child is born, and the father, an experienced alcoholic, gets on the right path thanks to this event.

Yes, in the subtle world we can see everyone who is dear to us, if we want to. And most importantly, it does not matter at all whether this soul lives in a new body or is still in a subtle state. Why? I'll explain now. This is very important to understand.

Energy position of man and soul in the space of measurements

There are seventy-two dimensions in total. A person in physical incarnation is the level of the third dimension.

For clarity and understanding, as a first approximation, I will describe it this way: a point in space is the first dimension. A flat picture that can be placed on a coordinate plane is the second dimension (it already has at least a height and a length).

A person, like any object in space that has a height, length and width, is a three-dimensional object. Or an object of the third dimension. These are purely physical indicators. Roughly speaking, just a body without a soul is a three-dimensional object that is simultaneously in three dimensions. It can be observed as a point, as a flat picture and as a three-dimensional object. It all depends on the position in which the observer is located relative to the object.

The place where the souls are ordinary people after death - this is the sixth dimension, and souls in their pure form, without karmic layers - the seventh dimension. Combining with the human body, this design becomes six-dimensional (or seven-dimensional, if we take into account the soul in its purest form). And it exists, by analogy with a three-dimensional body, simultaneously in six dimensions.

But our physical brain is initially consciously tuned to perceive first three levels. Although the manifestation is on all six, but the unconscious.

The physical body is surrounded by the substance of the etheric body. This body keeps the structure in shape and does not allow crumbling into elementary particles. Serves as a conductor between subtle energies and gross matter. This is a component of the three-dimensional physical body, in which there is a soul.

Next comes astral body, the body of human emotions and desires. This is the fourth dimension. Next - the mental, the body of thoughts. This is the fifth dimension. Then the sixth dimension is the karmic or causal body. And the seventh dimension is Atman, connection with God.

Man exists simultaneously in six dimensions. But the physical brain covers only the first three. The soul originally exists in the sixth, but together with the body - in the fifth, fourth and physical.

When moving in, the soul does not go anywhere, it seems to be stratified and is in all the listed changes at the same time. And for that part of the soul that is in a person, there is a natural desire to return home - to the seventh dimension.

When people engage in self-knowledge and meditative techniques, they release their soul from the clutches of three-dimensional reality and allow it to work with the physical brain, tuning it to the perception of 4, 5, 6 and 7 dimensions.

To achieve nirvana is to connect all parts of your soul and gain integrity in the perception of the world. Seeing the world in terms of three dimensions, or at least five, is a big difference. And the soul will incarnate until it unites with all its parts during life. And then it will continue to develop in the subtle world, c.

The soul fully passes into the seventh dimension when it is released from the circle of reincarnations and is released from the karmic body. That is precisely why one can clearly understand that even an embodied soul is present in all dimensions and can communicate with whomever it wishes at any level.

What happens when a person dies

Of course, within the framework of this article, it is simply impossible not to touch on such a burning topic for the living. Let's start with ordinary, natural death.

The natural death of a person can occur only in the event of the end of his life program. Absolutely at any age, mostly, of course, in old age. But the program may have different time frames.

When a person dies, his soul simply leaves the three-dimensional body and is in the 4th, 5th, 6th shell. We understand that the fourth shell is the body of emotions and desires, the fifth is thoughts. This suggests that a soul without a body is the same living person with thoughts and desires, only without a physical shell.

When the soul leaves the body, it still sees and hears. It retains the same qualities as during life, only it does not have a physical body. The soul sees how loved ones cry, how the funeral takes place. She is still under the impression of this life and perceives everything as a living person. As a rule, souls try to make themselves felt, to attract the attention of loved ones in order to console them, but no one hears them. And they suffer from it themselves.

The fact that a person has died can impress him only through the effect of surprise. At first, he may even be confused or worried about his family. But very quickly the soul gets used to the idea of ​​another reality. The soul can be close to loved ones for the first three days, or it can visit places that a person loved during his lifetime.

The ethereal shell holds the soul on the earthly plane. On the third day, it disintegrates, the energies are relieved, and the soul rises to the astral plane. There the astral shell disintegrates on the ninth day, after which the soul rises to the mental plane of the Earth. On the mental plane, on the fortieth day, the mental sheath also disintegrates. After that, the soul rises to the causal plane, where it undergoes a debriefing in the last incarnation. It is with this that memorial days are connected.

The sixth shell is the karma of a person. The soul will be able to cast off this body forever only when it leaves the circle of reincarnations and passes into the Hierarchy. Until that moment, the karmic body, like a chronicle of lives, is constantly with her. At this moment, the soul continues to exist in the sixth and seventh dimensions, striving to develop, free itself from the sixth shell and move into a pure existence without burdening energies.

In the process of physical death, a very large amount of energy is released. It happens that a person dies exhausted, after a debilitating illness. Then he may simply not have enough energy for his soul to rise to the necessary plans.

Of course, the souls of people do not leave alone after death. If necessary, they are helped to leave, but the living can also facilitate the soul's transition. For this, a forty-day prayer service is ordered in the church. Prayer is an energy supply for this soul, which will make it easy to reach its destination.

Sometimes a person dies an unnatural death - accidents, murders, suicides, and so on. It must be understood that at all levels of the Universe, except for the Hierarchy of the Devil, souls have the right of free choice. When a person's life is interrupted unexpectedly for him, this is the work of the same program. A person will never leave this life if this is not in his program. You have to come to terms with this.

Even when a person commits suicide, this option is in his program, but this is the most undesirable option of all possible. Even in this case, a person has the right to choose whether to throw himself under a train or not. In rare cases, it happens that a person, for some reason, tries to commit suicide, which is not in the program. Then he just doesn't die. Lies in a coma while the body heals, and comes back.

When a person returns to life after seemingly incompatible injuries, it means that he simply did not fulfill his program. And in this case, no one will take it.

When a person commits suicide, as a rule, he does it under a second of insanity. A person thinks that in this way he will end his suffering. But the whole point is that the suffering is just beginning. From the very first seconds, as soon as he realizes what happened, he begins to regret, because he sees the situation from a different, less distorted side. He tries to return everything back, but nothing can be returned.

The soul is attached to the body with a silver-colored energy thread (silver thread), and as long as this thread is not broken, the soul can return, if it is broken, there is no way back. The souls of suicides can walk the Earth until the day of their planned death arrives. And this is a great torment for the soul - with all human qualities to live among relatives and friends, when no one perceives you, to see how your wife marries another, and so on.

Are all souls rising

Of course, mostly souls rise, but not all. At all levels of the Universe there is an unshakable right to choose. Well, except for the Hierarchy of the Devil, of course. But, by the way, even in this Hierarchy Essences at high levels of development already acquire this right.

But back to souls. Every soul has the right to choose whether to leave or stay. There are such strong attachments to the physical world that even without a body a person is not ready to leave this life. For example, we talked about suicides - often they do not leave, hoping to return everything back.

Very often the souls who had honor and glory here do not leave. Academician Gulyaev E.A. cited the example of Yu. Gagarin. When his plane crashed, he was at the height of his fame. His life was so fabulous that an unexpected death became unacceptable for him, and he stayed on Earth in an etheric body for many more years until he was helped to leave. By the way, he left the Earth plane relatively recently.

Such things are often observed among famous people. There may also be murder victims who want revenge, or parents who are not ready to leave their children.

Of course, it is more natural for the soul to immediately rise and act according to the established plan. But one must understand that a soul that has just lost its body is still the same person, only incorporeal. No longer a person, but still not a soul, it is an essence. And all human desires, passions, thoughts, experiences are completely inherent in it.

For the further existence of such non-raised entities, there are two options: to be in a subtle body and to settle down with living people.

An entity can take root only if it is much more powerful than the owner of the body. Very often, sharing is observed in alcoholics or drug addicts. If an alcoholic dies and does not want or cannot leave, he can easily get into the same alcoholic when he is drunk and does not have high energy.

They can live in old people or children, or in a body that is in a coma. The main thing is that the owner of the body should be energetically weaker than the settler. When moving in, a split personality and other similar deviations may develop. According to the healer Gulyaev E.A., who works a lot with settlers, he came across people who had up to fifty such settlers.

Naturally, such people can only seek help from healers, strong exorcists, priests, magicians, because official psychiatry will never cure this.

What happens between death and birth

The birth of a person on Earth is a very interesting and in many ways, of course, still unknown process. Partially, the topic of birth is raised in articles and. Here I will try to briefly cover the whole process from the end of one life to the birth of the next.

When the soul is cleared from the astral and mental body, it rises to the causal plane of the Earth. Michael Newton describes in detail the processes of ascent and advancement in the subtle world. Passing through distributors and cleaners. I do not refer here in full to his works. Here, as in all my articles, there is information from various printed and non-printed sources, which finds the maximum response in my mind and subconscious.

So, the soul, having gone through all the stages of purification, comes to the entrance to its original world. Since she only recently existed as a particular personality, that personality has the greatest influence on her self-awareness. The Higher Ones perfectly understand the experiences of the soul that has come, and in order to alleviate stress, especially for young souls, they allow it to be met by those who were close to it throughout their lives (the last or previous ones) and left earlier.

Often, in a state of regressive hypnosis, people talk about meetings with parents who have died long ago, or close people. These people may be at other levels of development. They are only meant to meet and mitigate the situation. Then they return to their home.

Every soul has a Determinant. The essence from the first step of the Hierarchy of God, which leads one or several souls at the same time, and is interested in the correct and rapid development of the guided souls no less than themselves.

The determinant grows and develops through the development and growth of the souls subordinate to it. Here one can see the same hierarchical principle of development as everything else in the Universe. The determinant guides the soul on all levels. If the soul develops rapidly, it can be given another Determinant, the Essence from higher levels of the Hierarchy.

The Determinant meets the returned soul and guides it to its proper level of existence. In various sources, I met attempts to describe in detail all distribution points, where souls come and what they do. I still don't see the point in this detail. The main thing is to understand the general points.

At some stage, when the arriving soul got used to the situation, the Higher Ones, together with the Determinant, conduct a "debriefing" in its last incarnation. What worked out, what didn’t work out, what was worked out, what debts were, what debts were formed. All this information is recorded in the causal body - the sixth shell.

In general, debriefing is a comparison. When a soul goes to incarnate, it has a multi-variant program of life. This program is also written in the sixth shell. And after death, these records are simply compared. All flaws in the program or major blunders (serious sins) are a complication of the program for the next incarnation.

In the subtle world, the soul develops in exactly the same way between lives. There are an unlimited number of activities. Basically, it's creativity. In the Hierarchy of the Devil, this is, of course, calculations, programming and the implementation of destructive projects.

The soul can stay in the subtle world as long as it wants. It may not incarnate at all and always develop in the subtle world. There, development is easier, since the information is not distorted and the processes take place much faster, at the speed of thought.

But such development is less valuable. After all, the most important thing for the soul - it is so arranged - is to pass into the Hierarchy of God and then enter the Volume of God. And this is possible only after the development of a certain energy set.

In earthly incarnations, such a set is developed much faster than in subtle ones. Much heavier, but the more valuable it is. Therefore, the soul, simply wanting to quickly move into a more comfortable existence for it, takes on body after body, person after person, in order to accelerate the process of development.

When a soul decides to incarnate, the Higher Ones prepare programs for it. There may be several to choose from, or there may be one. A very young soul may not even be introduced to the program, since their programs are often associated either with wars, or with hunger, or poverty. For a starting set of the necessary energies, it is necessary to go through such cataclysms.

Older and wiser souls, as a rule, are introduced to the main criteria of the programs and given the opportunity to choose. The selection criteria include place of residence, gender of the future person, family, era, and many others.

When the choice is made, the Qualifier selects the parents of the unborn child in accordance with the chosen option. For example, the soul is supposed to be karmically born in the body of a disabled child in order to work out some programs. Such a child can be born only to those parents who also karmically have to raise a disabled child.

And if they happen similar options- it's just a program that needs to be done as worthy as possible. The program of life is complex system interrelationships of destinies different people, selection points, reversal of events. Therefore, when a person suddenly commits suicide, it becomes a serious loss for the Higher, since too many lives need to be adjusted in which he had to take part. But the right to choose is the right to choose.

When the program is chosen, all the preparatory moments have been completed, conception has taken place, the soul receives its causal shell with new program, descends into the mental plane, receives a mental sheath, descends into the astral plane, receives an astral sheath. Then, in the etheric plane of the Earth, putting on an ethereal shell, it merges with the body of the fetus.

Different sources describe different periods of the merging of the soul with the body. Seklitova L.A. talks about the moment of birth, Michael Newton - about the fourth or fifth month of pregnancy. Other sources indicate very early dates - the second or third week after conception.

I tend to think that there are no clearly defined limits here, everything is individual. And any of the above terms are possible. But whenever this merging occurs, the process of conception is already a process controlled by the Higher.

There is already a program for the potential fetus that is linked to millions of other programs. And when parents choose to get rid of the fetus, they thereby violate the harmoniously built system, which will definitely affect their karma. Not necessarily in the next life, a person can work out karma in the current incarnation.

Perhaps, in the process of reading, it will seem to you that such a mysterious phenomenon as the soul is somehow presented too simply and has too many humanized features. I used to think of the soul as something otherworldly and unknown. But after all, a person's personality is formed not only by a set of chromosomes, but also by a piece of God - the soul. And we are because we are so formed by these components.

How can they be radically different from what they themselves constitute? After all, a dead person is similar to a living person physically, only there is no energy component in it. This is how the souls of people after death are absolutely the same energetically, only without a physical body.

Therefore, one should not be surprised that the soul also has fun, sadness, worries, creates and feels absolutely everything that a person does, only without a physical component, this does not manifest itself so clearly in Earth reality.

This is how the article turned out. We briefly reviewed the basic concepts that characterize the existence of the soul between lives. Of course, not much is said here. But these are such deep topics that are worthy of separate articles, and I will do my best to please you with new information in the near future.

I also want to appeal to people who may not agree with what was written. Surely the article will be read by those who have long formed their picture of a different reality. Just take from here what is missing for your puzzle. We can only speculate, explore, study. And we will be able to find out for sure a little at other stages of our development. A little bit later

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Many who have lost loved ones know the feelings that loss evokes. Emptiness, longing and wild pain in the soul. Grieving for the departed loved ones is one of the most painful psychological conditions.

However, there is a lot of information about the living receive messages from the subtle world.

We will not take into account researchers who purposefully study opportunities for two-way communication with the other world. There are quite a few people who claim that they make no effort to see the souls of the departed. Visions occur, in their opinion, involuntarily.

From this article you will learn how the souls of the dead communicate with the living.

stuck between worlds

People are often frightened when footsteps are clearly heard in their houses where no one walks. Water taps and light switches turn on by themselves, they can things fall off the shelves with enviable regularity. In other words, poltergeist activity is observed. But what is really happening?

To understand who or what communicates with us on behalf of the dead, we need to imagine what happens after death.

After the death of the physical body, the soul seeks to return to the Creator. Some souls will do it faster, while others will take longer. The higher the level of development of the soul, the faster it will reach the Home.

However, the soul can, for various reasons, linger in the astral plane, which is closest in density to the physical world. Sometimes the deceased is not aware of what is happening and where he is. He does not understand that he is dead. He is not able to return to the physical body and gets stuck between the worlds.

For him, everything remains the same, except for one thing: living people stop seeing them. Such souls are considered to be ghosts.


On what period ghost soul will linger next to the world of the living, depends on the level of development of the soul. By human standards, the time spent by a certain soul in parallel with living people can be calculated in decades, or even centuries. They may need the help of the living.

Call from beyond

Phone calls from the inhabitants of the subtle world are one of the ways of communication. SMS comes to mobile phones, calls come from strange numbers from a multitude of numbers. When trying to call back to these numbers or send a response, it turns out that this number does not exist, and later it is completely deleted from the phone's memory.

Such calls, as a rule, are accompanied by a very strong noise, similar to the wind in the field and a loud crash. Through crackling, contact with the world of the dead is manifested. It's like a curtain breaks between the worlds.

The phrases are short and only the caller speaks. Calls coming to mobile phones are observed for the first time after a person has died. The farther from the day of death, the rarer they become.

The recipients of such calls may not suspect that the caller is dead. This is clarified later. It is possible that such calls are made by ghosts who themselves are not aware of their physical death.

What do the dead talk about when they call on the phone?

Sometimes, by calling on the phone, the dead may ask for help.

So, one woman received a call late in the evening from her younger sister, who asked for help. But the woman was very tired, so she promised to call back in the morning next day and help all you can.

And about five minutes later, the younger sister's husband called and said that for about two weeks his wife had been dead, and her body was in the forensic morgue. She was hit by a car and the driver fled the scene.

Souls, by calling on the phone, can warn about the danger of the living.


The young family was driving. A girl was driving. The car skidded, and it miraculously did not roll over, moving off the road. Called at this time mobile phone girls.

When everyone came to their senses a little, it turned out that the girl's mother called. She called back, and she asked in a trembling voice if everything was all right. When asked why she asked, the woman replied: “Grandfather called (he died six years ago), said: “She is still alive. You can save her."

In addition to cell phones, the voices of dead people can be heard in computer speakers along with technical noise. Their degree of intelligibility can vary from very quiet and barely intelligible to relatively loud and clearly distinguishable.

Reflection of ghosts in mirrors and more

People tell how they see reflections of their dead relatives in mirrors, as well as on TV screens and computer monitors.

The girl saw a rather dense silhouette of her mother on the tenth day after her funeral. The woman “sat” on a chair next to her, as she did during her lifetime, and looked over her daughter’s shoulder. After a few moments, the silhouette disappeared and never reappeared. Later, the girl realized that the mother's soul came to her to say goodbye.

Raymond Moody in his books talks about the oldest technique when peering into the mirror, you can establish contact with the deceased. This technique was used in ancient times by priests. True, instead of mirrors they used bowls of water.

An unprepared person can see in the mirror the image of the one who died by briefly glancing into it. The image can either transform from the reflection of the face of the one who looks into the mirror, or appear next to the reflection of the beholder.


In addition to the signs that the inhabitants of the subtle planes leave through technology or some household items, attempts to make contact are made directly. That is, people physically feel the otherworldly presence of spirits, hear their voices, and even recognize the smells that are characteristic of their timelessly departed loved ones during their lifetime.

Tactile sense of presence

otherworldly presence sensitive people feel like a light touch, or a breeze. Often, mothers who have lost their children, in moments of great grief, feel as if someone is hugging them or stroking their hair.

It is possible that in moments when people have a strong desire to see the deceased relatives, their subtle bodies able to perceive the energies of more subtle planes.

The dead ask for help from the living

Sometimes a person is in an unusual state. He feels that he needs to do something, he is “pulled” somewhere. He does not understand what exactly, but the feeling of confusion does not let him go. He is in literally words find no place.

Natalia:

“We came to visit relatives in another city where my grandparents once lived. It was Monday, and tomorrow is Parent's Day. I could not find a place for myself, I was drawn somewhere, I felt that I had to do something. The family discussed tomorrow. They did not remember where my grandfather's grave was located - the cemetery was upset and all the landmarks were removed.

Without telling anyone, I went to the cemetery alone to look for my grandfather's grave. I didn't find her that day. The next day, the third, the fourth - to no avail. And the state does not let go, only intensifies.

Returning to my city, I asked my mother what my grandfather's grave looked like. It turns out that there is a photograph of a stele with a star at the end, on the grandfather's grave. And so we went—this time with my sister and my daughter. And my daughter found his grave!

We put it in order, painted the monument. Now all relatives know where grandfather is buried.

After that, it felt like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. It feels like I should have brought my family to his grave."

calling voice

Sometimes, being in crowded places, you can very clearly hear the calling voice of the deceased, similar to a hail. This happens when mixing sounds, and unexpectedly.

They just sound in real time. It happens that in moments when a person thinks strongly about something, he can hear the clue in the voice of the deceased.

Meeting with the souls of the dead in dreams

There are many people talking about they take off the dead. And the attitude to such meetings in dreams is ambiguous. They scare someone, someone tries to interpret them, believing that an important message is hidden in such a dream. And there are those who do not take dreams of the dead seriously. For them, it's just a dream.

What are the dreams in which we see those who are no longer among us:

  • we receive all sorts of warnings about upcoming events;
  • in dreams we learn how the souls of the dead “settled” in the other world;
  • we understand that they ask for forgiveness for their actions during their lifetime;
  • through us they can send messages to others;
  • the souls of the dead can ask the living for help.

Can be listed for a long time probable causes why the dead are portrayed alive. Only the one who dreamed of the deceased can understand this.


Regardless of how people receive signs from the dead, it is safe to say that they are trying to get in touch with the living.

The souls of our loved ones continue to take care of us even while in the subtle world. Unfortunately, not everyone is always ready for such contacts. Most often this causes panic fear. Memories of loved ones are deeply imprinted in our memory.

Perhaps in order to meet with the dead, it is enough to open access to our own subconscious.

How a person develops relationships, in life after death, with those whom he loves or with those who cause him a feeling of devotion or adoration. Again and again one hears disturbing questions - is it possible to be sure that we will meet in life after death those whom we loved so much and whether we will recognize them in this new life? Fortunately, this question can be answered quite definitely. Yes, we will find our friends there, and this is without the slightest shadow of a doubt, and our relations with them will be fuller and more real than it was in the physical world.

In addition, it is often asked: “Can friends who have already moved to the heavenly world see us here, are they watching us and are they waiting for us? Hardly; for there are insurmountable difficulties for this. And indeed, how could a departed person maintain a happy state if he looked back seeing those he loves in grief and suffering, or, even worse, at the moment of a crime being committed?
And the second guess is that he expects them, not much better than the first. In this case, the person would have a long waiting period in which his friend may change so much that he loses all his attractiveness. In the natural order, so wisely established for us by nature, there are no such difficulties; those whom a person loved most of all remain always with him and at the same time in their most noble and perfect form, and not a shadow of discord or change can be between them and him, since he receives from his friends only what he himself wishes . Reality is incomparably more perfect than anything that a person could invent with his imagination; all existing theories are human inventions, while the truth is the thought of God himself.


In fact, every time we love someone very deeply, we create a mental image of them and they often appear in our minds. We take this image of a friend with us into, because in the natural order this image corresponds to the highest level of mental matter. The love that creates and maintains such an image is a powerful force - a force sufficient to affect the soul of the one we love. The soul of a friend responds to the impact of this force with the appropriate energy, and this energy fills the mental image that we have created, and thus our friend actually remains with us, and moreover, more directly than is possible in earthly life. Let us not forget that love is caused not by the body, but by the soul of a friend, but we have here with us the soul of a person. To this they may say: "yes, it could be so if the friend died, but suppose that he is still alive, and then his soul cannot be in two places at the same time." In fact, the soul can be in two places at the same time and even more than two; and the fact that our friend is alive or dead in our opinion does not make the slightest difference. Let us try to understand more clearly what the soul is in essence, and then we better understand the actual course of things.

The human soul belongs to a higher plane, it is something incomparably greater than all its manifestations. Its relation to its manifestations is the relation of one dimension to another; square to line or cube to square. No number of squares could make a cube, since a square has only two dimensions, while a cube has three. In the same way, no amount of manifestations on one of the lower planes is able to exhaust the fullness of the soul, which belongs to an absolutely different world. She puts a small part of herself into the physical body in order to gain an experience that is possible only on the physical plane; she can use only one such body at a time, because such is the law; but if she could use a thousand bodies, even then they would not be able to fully express her real essence. She can have only one physical body, but if she has managed to evoke such love in her friend that this friend has her image everywhere in front of him, then she can pour her own life into his mental image, revitalizing it to the degree of true expression of her own. essence on this high plane; the latter, as we know, exceeds the physical world by as much as two planes and therefore provides incomparably better conditions for the expression of spiritual qualities.

For someone who finds it difficult to imagine his consciousness being active simultaneously in different manifestations, it is useful to make a comparison with ordinary physical experience. Each of us, sitting in our chair, experiences several physical touches at the same time. He touches the seat of the chair, his feet touch the floor, his hands touch the arms of the chair, or perhaps hold a book; and yet it is not difficult for his brain to perceive all these contacts at the same time; why should it not be possible for a soul which is so much greater than its physical consciousness to be conscious at the same time of more than one manifestation on planes so much below its own level? We know that all these different contacts are actually experienced by the same person; and the same soul really feels all such mental images in the same way, and in all of them it is equally real, full of life and love. Here we have the most better side soul, for here it can express itself incomparably more fully than is possible for it under the most favorable conditions on the physical plane.

But can this affect the evolution of a friend? - they can ask me. Of course he can, because it gives him extra opportunity express yourself. If he lives in a physical body, he is already passing physical lessons but at the same time it will enable him to develop much more rapidly the faculty of love through the medium of that thought-image on the mental plane which the dead friend has created for him. Thus, the love of the latter does great good for him.

As we have already noted, the soul is able to manifest itself in many similarities that others have created for it. A person greatly loved by many people can participate in many celestial experiences at the same time and thus develop much faster; but this possibility is a direct consequence of those loving qualities which attracted the affection of many people to him. Thus, he not only enjoys the love of many, but thanks to this he himself grows in love, no matter whether his friends belong to the living or to the dead.

But it should be added that there are two limitations to such communication. First, the image of your friend that you have created may be imperfect - it may lack some of his higher properties, and then these properties will not be able to manifest through him. And secondly, the difficulty may arise from the side of the friend himself. Your idea of ​​it may not be entirely correct; perhaps you have exaggerated it in some direction, in which case it will not be able to fill one of the aspects of your mental image with its content. But this is hardly acceptable and can only happen when an absolutely unworthy object is unreasonably deified. But even then the creator of the mental image will not feel a change in his friend, because it is incomparably easier for the latter to realize his ideal now than during the communication of both friends in the physical world. Not being perfect, he will still manifest better than he did on earth, and the joy of the one in heaven will not be clouded.

Your friend may imbue hundreds of his likenesses with the qualities he possesses, but if some quality is not developed in him, it cannot arise just because you attributed that quality to him. This is where great advantage people who create only images that are not capable of disappointing them, or rather, those that can rise above all the ideas created about them by the lower mind. The student who creates the image of his Teacher is aware that all dissimilarity will come from the imperfection of this image, for here he draws from such a depth of love and spiritual strength that he cannot measure with his mind.

But, it may be asked, since the soul spends so much time enjoying the bliss of the heavenly world, what is the possibility of its development during this stay? This possibility can be of three kinds, although each of them admits of many modifications.

First, thanks to certain inner qualities, man has opened certain windows to the heavenly world; by training in these qualities for so long, he will greatly enhance them and return in the next incarnation richly gifted on this side. All internal processes are intensified by their repetition, and a person who has exercised for long period- say, in selfless devotion - will learn at the end of this period to love strongly and completely.

Secondly, if his striving brings him into contact with one of the categories of spiritual beings of which there has been talk, he will inevitably gain much of value from intercourse with them. So, in music, he learns from them many overtones and variations, until then unknown to him; also in painting and in the plastic arts, he will learn what he had no idea on earth. All this newness will gradually be imprinted in him, and he will return from the heavenly world incomparably richer than he was before.

Third, he can learn new things with the help of those likenesses of beloved and revered people that he created. If these are people who are much higher than him in development, he can acquire a lot of new knowledge through them; the higher the being corresponding to such a mental image, the more new knowledge can be obtained through it.

But what matters most is the life of the soul itself in that imperishable body (causal, or causal), which it carries with it from life to life in an unchanged form, except for its natural evolution. When the celestial experiences come to an end, the mental body of man is shed in turn, as the two lower bodies were shed, and then life begins in the causal body. Now the soul does not need windows, for here is its homeland and here all the walls have collapsed before it.

Most people are deprived of almost all consciousness on this high plane: they rest in a state that can be compared to drowsiness, unable to perceive the life of this world too high for them, although the visions that flash before them are not a product of fantasies, but a phenomenon of this world; nevertheless, each time they return, their limitations will diminish, and the consciousness of this true life of the soul will be revealed to them more and more fully. At the same time, the duration of life in this high state will increase more and more in comparison with existence on the lower levels of being.

As a person grows up, he becomes able not only to receive, but also to give. He approaches the crown of human evolution more and more, he learns the lesson given by Christ, he recognizes the greatness and joy of sacrifice, he experiences the highest delight of pouring out his life to help others, giving his self to everyone, bringing all his enlightened forces to the aid of struggling humanity.

This is part of the life after death that awaits us; here before you are some of the rungs on the ladder of life, which we, who are at the very bottom of it, can still see, see how they rise to an unfathomable height, and having seen them, convey to you our vision, so that you too can open your eyes to that unfading the eternal light that surrounds us all, imprisoned in the darkness of everyday life. This is part of the good news that Theosophy has brought into the world - the assurance of a divine future that awaits all. It is certain, for it already exists, but in order to inherit it, we must make ourselves worthy of this future.

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Hello, tomorrow will be 9 days for my beloved fiance, he died in the hospital, I want to know, after my death we will meet? And if we meet, will we also love each other, or will it completely disappear? I'm scared to think that he won't wait for me, our meeting.

Tatyana

Dear Tatyana, only what is lost on earth will completely disappear. Those who have passed into that world do not forget their relatives, only the reality there is different and it is impossible to expect them to think of us in the same way as we think of them here. The deceased appears before God, and, of course, all his attention is directed to Him. But love for loved ones does not disappear from this. Remember how in the exam: you take a ticket, you only think about the answer. But the love does not disappear! Pray for the deceased, do alms if possible, partake of the holy Mysteries of Christ, live church life. It will serve both you and him to increase. God bless you!

Priest Sergiy Osipov

Hello! After death, do family ties (marriage) continue, or later, in eternity, we will not know each other that we are spouses?

Anatoly

Hello Anatoly. We will meet with everyone, of course, and we will not forget anything. Not a single little thing. But family relations will no longer be. Here are the words of Christ: “In the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but remain as the angels of God in heaven” (Matthew 22:30).

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Father! Tell me please. My grandmother passed away before God. I love her very much, and after my time comes, I want to find her. Do you think she will have the same appearance as she was on earth? Will she be my grandmother? And there is one more question: if souls are born or are reborn into another earthly body, do they already take on a different appearance, and do they develop love and affection for other people and souls? How can I understand this? I so want to meet my granny later, hug her, see her and be with her forever! Excuse me for asking such a question, but please, if you know, tell me. Can I find her?

Marina

In heaven, everyone will be like angels, this is indicated in the Holy Scriptures (Matt. 22:30); there will be no kinship in that earthly representation, as we understand it, but the souls will partly remember each other. As for the idea of ​​rebirth into souls into another body, please forget it, these are such fantastic ideas that it’s not even worth talking about them seriously. I'm not saying that all these Buddhist ideas have nothing to do with Christianity.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello, I have always been interested in the question: it is said that after the end of the world, sinners will go to hell, and the righteous will go to heaven. And how to live FOREVER?

Ivan

I don’t see a contradiction here, Ivan, everything is absolutely correct: the righteous will forever be in Paradise, and the sinners will be in hell, this will be eternal life for both. Everything will be that way. True, I cannot help but make a reservation that in modern theology there are various doctrines about the finiteness of the torments of hell, that sinners, as if cleansed from sins through torment, will be pardoned, or about, for example, that sinners will choose hell for themselves voluntarily, but we cannot know this for certain, and therefore it is more reasonable for us to trust the text of Holy Scripture, without philosophizing craftily.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

As you know, in Paradise there will be no morning, no evening, no night, but always day. It seems to me that the morning is beautiful, the evening is sweet, and the night is good on earth. There will be no autumn and winter, but always spring and summer. I love autumn very much, like Pushkin, and also enjoy the beauty of nature in winter. I, like many people, love all seasons. Also, people will not need to drink, or food, or clothes. Why is that?

Olga

Olga, it will be so beautiful in Paradise that a person on earth cannot not only imagine, but even think. I think, looking at the beauty of heavenly abodes, you will understand that all the beauties of the Earth in comparison with them are just a pitiful shadow.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Tell me, will only baptized believing people be saved and go to the heavenly Jerusalem, but baptized unbelievers and pagans will not? Or they will be judged according to their conscience, and those who lived with dignity will also go to heaven, but which one? Maybe there are different levels of paradise? I meet different points of view of the priests.

Julia

Hello Julia! No one can give you a definitive answer to this question. Our posthumous fate is in the hands of God. The Lord is an all-merciful judge, but also an all-righteous one, and the judgment of God, in the end, is only a manifestation of the choice that a person himself has already made during his lifetime: whether he is with God or not. Consider what the Lord says: "No one will come to my Father except through Me." This means that without Christ, outside the Church, there can be no salvation. Indeed, without recognizing in Christ the Son of God, no one can be saved. But this does not mean that hundreds of thousands, maybe millions of people who knew nothing about Christ and Christianity will be severely punished. Remember, for example, American Indians before the discovery of America by Columbus, or about the Africans, or about the Polynesians, or even about those people who may have heard something about Christianity, but never had the experience of preaching about it in their life - which could be called apostolic. But if a person saw the image of Christ in front of him, and suddenly for some reason did not accept and turned away, and, like the Jews during the life of Christ, said: “No, we have no king but Caesar, we don’t want to be with you, Christ God!” Whoever says this, it must be assumed that there is no way to salvation, but let us remember about the fate of others that the judgment is not ours, but the judgment of God and this judgment is just and merciful.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello! Is it true that in the Kingdom of God (when we die), only those spouses who were married in the church during their lifetime will meet? Thanks.

Christina

Hello Christina! The Lord Himself in the Gospel says that after death people will not marry and get married, they will be like the angels of God in heaven. If in the life of the family there was not only a wedding, a good beginning, but also a path traveled such that people were connected here, on earth, by something that already belonged to eternity on earth, something that could be continued in eternity, then they will meet there. It will be a meeting in the fullness of joy that will never cease, and if they were united on earth only by common passions, whether bodily, or a passion for acquisition, or mutual repulsion from the rest of the world, or only joint care, even care for children, or simply social closeness, in order to survive in certain circumstances, but were internally alien to each other, then, of course, what can be continued here in eternity? The real outcome of life, and not something formal, makes this life here on earth the beginning of being outside the visible world.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello. I did not have time to marry my beloved person and get married. Is it possible, even though my beloved is no longer in this earthly life, to ask the Lord God to let us be together with him in eternal life? I know that this is my destiny, and praying to God helps me every day. Could this be not only the salvation of our souls, but a test of our love? Thanks in advance for your reply.

Anna

Hello Anna. There is no marriage in eternal life, "for in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like the angels of God in heaven." You can completely ignore my words, but believe me, I wish you well. Beware of mystical dreams and fantasies. Stick to the sound Orthodox teaching set forth by the Holy Fathers of the Eastern Church, and pay no attention to the inventions of the ignorant. In that life, everything is different. There is not a single local concept known to us that would be applicable to that reality. “The eye has not seen, the ear has not heard, and it has not entered the heart of man, which God has prepared for those who love Him.” Truth is simple and all-encompassing, and it reveals itself directly, and not in speculation and imagination, clothed in words. Christ gave the method of comprehending the Truth: "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." This is already the sixth blessedness, but first one must learn humility, contrition of heart, meekness, constant thirst for God's truth and mercy. These are the Commandments of the Lord, you can fulfill them, because God accompanies those who follow them. And let us leave the fate of eternity to the judgment of God. We believe that God is good and does only good things. And I have prepared the best for you, based on the state of your soul and heart in which you are now. Each of us can change this state of mind and heart. God help you.

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Hello Father! Do relatives, close people and close friends see each other after death? Or will there be one?

Anatoly

Hello Anatoly. Sooner or later, we will all find out the answer to this question personally. The soul will not remain alone, but until the resurrection (restoration) the soul has no freedom. The soul is not a person, but only the soul of a person. Will meet someone. But what will happen after the Resurrection, it is even impossible to imagine. “The eye has not seen, the ear has not heard, and it has not entered the heart of man, which God has prepared for those who love Him.” (1 Corinthians 2.9)

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Father bless! My son's 7-month-old son died (baptized, inveterate). They were told that if you become pregnant with a new child before the 40th day, then the soul of our baby will move into it and will live in a new child. Is it so? Forgive me, sinner.

Ekaterina

What are you, Ekaterina, what nonsense! Who could say such a thing from believers?! You need to get these ideas out of your head, celebrate, as it should be, the days of memory for your son, and then think about the future.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello. Explain how Christianity relates to the reincarnation of the soul? One Christian woman said that in past life she was in hell for her crimes, and now, when the LORD descends there, repentant souls cry out, and he sends them to earth again for correction. How to relate to this and what to answer to a person who believes that we live more than one life? A sinful thing, I used to think so too, but Lately I think differently, but I can’t even explain to myself, neither the first nor the second. Forgive me and pray for me, a sinner.

Svetlana

Svetlana, relocation human souls from body to body is a fiction of the human mind, striving to the best of its ability to explain the incomprehensible aspects of being. Such a migration does not exist, and it is strange that a woman who calls herself a Christian can speak such nonsense! What can she say? Let him try to give evidence of his point of view from Scripture. They are not there!

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Where will a person go after death and will he meet his relatives there?

Zhenya

Zhenya, Scripture unequivocally speaks of the existence of Heaven and Hell, but where a person goes depends on the person himself. With regard to relatives, such a meeting is quite possible if these relatives are in the same monasteries as the person himself.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello, fathers! Quite a lot of time has passed, already 2 years, and I still cannot come to terms with the loss of my dearest person on earth, my precious mother. There was not a day that I did not cry, all thoughts are only about her, nothing in life makes me happy. Do we have any consolation? Can we hope to meet our loved ones and consider our separation temporary? After all, not everything in life can go unnoticed. I do not know what to do.

Lena

Lena, death must be treated in a Christian way. There is not a single person on earth who would live forever. Every person is sentenced to death. "You will die," God said to Adam when he drove him out of paradise. Despondency, despair is a sin, stop angering God, stop crying. You harm not only yourself, but also your mother, you need to pray for the repose of her soul, and you torment her with your tears. Death is the birth into a new, different life. The soul of a person does not die, but lives forever, only where it will then be depends on our life. "From his deeds a man will be justified or condemned," he will go to heaven or hell. After death, we will definitely meet, but whether we will be together depends on us now, on how we will spend this life. Pray, repent, live like a Christian. Stop useless tears.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Hello! I read the book "Notes of the Living Deceased". Written by Elsa Barker. It is written about the afterlife on behalf of a dead person. And what is it all real story. How to treat it?

Vera

Faith, this is fiction, so please treat it that way. And for the future - in order not to read something dubious, and then not to be tormented by questions - read better, as St. Ignatius Brianchaninov, holy authors.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello! I would like to ask Hieromonk Victorin (Aseev) a question. Father Viktorin, it has been said here more than once that living relatives greatly mourn their departed relatives, it was said that they need to understand that they are better off there than here, and you said: “a different life, life in the Kingdom of Heaven is much better, than here on earth, and if a person visits there at least once, then he will not want to return back to this world full of evil, "if baptized small children die, then they go to heaven. Let's leave, okay, small baptized children, if they somehow go to heaven - this is a consolation for loved ones, probably, should be. But what to do if an adult loved one left, but you pray, but how do you know where he ended up? After all, as I understand it, on the 40th day everything was already decided where he should be - in heaven or in hell. And the fact that the deceased relative is better there than here, and he should seem to calm down and stop shedding tears, as it has been repeatedly said here ... After all, how is it better if he ended up in hell? After all, we do not know where exactly? And then yes, paradise is good, of course, but how good it can be, for example, for a mother without her child, in whom she did not look for souls, even if she ended up in paradise, but without her child. Father, I am confused in these matters, help me figure it out. Thanks.

Ludmila

Lyudmila, it was about babies. Baptized babies, if for some reason die, they always go to heaven. About an adult, when he dies, we cannot specifically say where he will go, to heaven or hell. We can say affirmatively that a person went to heaven only if we clearly see that he leads a holy way of life, or if a person is completely atheist and an obvious sinner and does not repent of his sins, then we can say that a person perishes for the Kingdom of Heaven, and then presumably because only God decides. We are guided by the commandments of God. After 40 days, a private judgment takes place - this is a preliminary place, and this can be changed by our prayers to God, and therefore we always pray for our departed. The final decision will be the Last Judgment when there is nothing to fix, the verdict will be final. As written in Holy Scripture, there the person will not ask about anything. If a mother got into the Kingdom of Heaven, then she will be able to beg for her child. A mother's prayer comes from the bottom of the sea. I think if during their lifetime they have such strong love then they will be together in death. God is love. God loves man and does everything for our salvation. Everything depends on ourselves, if we want to be saved together with our children and will do everything for this, then, of course, God will not leave us and have mercy.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Hello! Do you think you can trust a site that provides stories of people who have experienced clinical death and the like? And in general, how to relate to such people, to people who saw something in unconsciousness? People who saw something in a dream? People who have seen something in similar states? How to be? Thank you in advance.

Oleg

Oleg, you should not trust such sites, as well as similar "revelations" of people who have experienced clinical death in general: there are so many things mixed in them that it is not possible to make out where the truth is and where the lie is. Therefore, it is better to completely dismiss this muddy source of information.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello, fathers. I apologize in advance for the question. I just don’t know how to ask more correctly and delicately so as not to offend the Lord and you. I don’t want it to look like I’m leaving the hospital or serving time, so I repeatedly apologize. Explain, please, if the soul of the deceased after the Judgment of God ends up in hell, then this is forever? Can relatives beg for forgiveness for him, praying daily in a home prayer for a lost soul? Can the Lord, already after 40 days, later, ever forgive a sinner and take him to Himself, to Paradise? Is such mercy possible? Is it written somewhere about this? Probably, I have a clouding of my mind, but I am ashamed to admit that bad thoughts are constantly in my head (I confessed this), I want to know, check, make sure. Here it is again... It's like I'm talking to a lawyer. Lord, don't let me go crazy! Once again, forgive me, a sinner. I would be very grateful for an answer.

On the 3rd day after death, the soul ascends to worship God, goes through ordeals, where it can be detained for sins. How to appear before God on this day, on the 9th, on the 40th, if there is no intercessor and prayer book on earth, and the Angel, because of the stinking sins, retreated?

Valery

Valery, the Lord is merciful, and is able to have mercy even if none of the relatives prays on earth. In general, you and I go into areas in which we cannot know anything for sure. We need to know only one thing: how to live without sins and not fall into hellish abysses.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Boundless and unsuccessful would be our grief for dying loved ones, if the Lord did not give us eternal life. Our life would be aimless if it ended in death. But man was created for immortality, and Christ, by His resurrection, opened the gates of the Kingdom of Heaven, eternal bliss for those who believed in Him and lived righteously. Our earthly life is a preparation for future life, and this preparation ends with death. "It is appointed for men to die once, and then judgment" (Heb. 9:27). Then a person leaves all his earthly cares; his body disintegrates in order to rise again at the General Resurrection. But his soul continues to live, not ceasing its existence for a single moment. St. Ambrose of Milan teaches: “Since the soul continues to live after death, there remains goodness that is not lost with death, but increases. The soul is not held back by any obstacles set by death, but is more active, because it acts in its own sphere without any connection with body, which is rather a burden than a benefit to her" (St. Ambrose of Milan, "Death as a blessing"). Anyone who wishes to show his love for the dead and give them real help, maybe the best way make it a prayer for them, and especially a commemoration at the Liturgy (only the baptized), when the particles seized for the living and the dead are immersed in the Blood of the Lord with the words: "Wash, Lord, the sins of those who were commemorated here in Thy precious Blood, through the prayers of Thy saints." They always need this, especially in those forty days when the soul of the deceased follows the path to the eternal villages. The body then does not feel anything: it does not see the gathered loved ones, does not smell the smell of flowers, does not hear funeral speeches. But the soul feels the prayers offered for it, is grateful to those who offer them, and is spiritually close to them. You have the wrong idea about afterlife. They don't get married there, they don't get married - there is endless life in Christ Jesus, Our Lord. Whether you marry or not is your personal decision. The Apostle Paul says "it's better for you to remain celibate like me, but not everyone can accommodate it," so that you do not sin, do not inflame the flesh, it is better to marry (get married). A married man cares about how to please his wife, while an unmarried man thinks about how to please God.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

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